
Saturday, December 27, 2008
Monday, December 15, 2008
One Year Old!!



Monday, December 8, 2008
Monday, Dec 8
This year is clearly a year of firsts for Addison. Thanksgiving was wonderful. She didn't get any turkey, well none that we had anyways. Hers was from a jar. She had a great time hanging out with her cousins and the rest of the family.

Swimming lessons are going well, although Addison is not really learning to swim. I highly doubt she would be able to save her own life if she fell in a pool, but we're having a blast going to the lessons. She's about to graduate from the diaper dolphins to the flippers class, which begs the question, "How does one graduate if one learns nothing?" That's the great American education system, I guess.

On Saturday, we went out into the wilderness and found a great tree and Rach cut it down with her bare hands. Or, we went to 41st and Harvard and bought one from Isaiah who hooked us up with a $25 tree stand too. Either way, Addison loved the experience of getting her first Christmas tree and we all had a great time.

Swimming lessons are going well, although Addison is not really learning to swim. I highly doubt she would be able to save her own life if she fell in a pool, but we're having a blast going to the lessons. She's about to graduate from the diaper dolphins to the flippers class, which begs the question, "How does one graduate if one learns nothing?" That's the great American education system, I guess.


Monday, November 24, 2008
Wide Open

Tonight, I sit awake, crying, grieving again the child we expected to have 11 months ago. I don’t know why I grieve. The child we got instead is sweet, funny, adorable, capable, smart, caring, non-discriminating, loving and playful. There never was any other child. She was always going to be who she is. It’s been almost a year, and I finally, maybe for the first time, have seen an upside to Down Syndrome. I’ve noticed lately that a lot of parents of “typical” kids watch their child clip through milestones, without their giving it a second thought. Yet they’re always wishing for the next one, never appreciating what they’ve got. “Yes he/she’s crawling/babbling/teething/feeding himself, but when’s he ever going to…?” I almost feel a relief that I can watch my child and be excited about what she is doing instead of frustrated at what she’s not. Her having a “disability” has given me the permission to throw typical expectations out the window, and enjoy her on Addison-time. Having said that, it can be incredibly frustrating to work and work and work on a given skill for months at a time, seeing no progress whatsoever. Until one day, she decides she’s ready, and takes off. Just in the last few weeks, Addison has learned to get from her tummy to sitting, started babbling, and has figured out if she positions herself just right, she can pull herself up on her crib rail.
So, why do I grieve? Selfishness. Pride. Envy. Empathy. Fear. As much as Addison may be more alike others than different, she will always be different. Though many will be nice to her, some will not, and some only patronizingly. I’m afraid they won’t all see past her flat nose, almond eyes and low-set ears to genuinely appreciate the girl behind them and give her a fair chance. We all have our shortcomings, she just has to wear hers on the outside.
Friday, November 14, 2008
Friday, November 14


Monday, November 3, 2008
Monday, November 3






Monday, October 27, 2008
Monday, October 27



Sunday, October 19, 2008
Sunday, Oct 19
This weekend was a big weekend for us. On Saturday, we took Addison to her first swimming lesson. We had a wonderful time. We practiced floating on our back, which was a breeze, then jumping off of the side of the pool into the water. You would think that this would not be a good thing to teach a child that doesn’t know how to swim yet, but I guess those swim instructors know what they are doing. Of course, they also said that we would be completely submerging the children in the pool before the last lesson was completed, so we do have some question on who these folks really are. Oh well, I guess you have to let go and let the kid learn how to drown on their own someday, so it might as well be now.
Today was the Buddy Walk for the Down Syndrome Assoc. of Tulsa. We had a wonderful time today, so to all who contributed, thanks for your support. We were able to raise $2200 because of your generosity.
Addison certainly contributed. She walked, well more like rolled, one lap around the track and then won a nice gold medal for coming in 236th place out of 1,240. Finishing in the top 20% as a ten-month-old makes me think she might have a future as an Olympian. She didn’t spend much time celebrating though because she quickly re-discovered the toy attached to her safety harness in the stroller, and immediately started playing again. Now this gal has her priorities straight.
Thanks to Peggy, we were able to get a nice family picture with the Team Addison flag that we made for the event.

For the next picture, I'm not sure if we caught her by surprise, or if she was trying to tell me something. Either way, I thought this was classic.







Tuesday, October 14, 2008
Tuesday, October 14



The other new thing she’s doing is getting up on her hands & knees and rocking back and forth. She’ll scoot backwards, and occasionally forward (it’s really more of a forward fall than a scoot), but no crawling yet. Guess she’ll have to keep rocking for now to get her momentum up.

Friday, October 10, 2008
Friday, October 10
Wes and I have both noticed lately that Addison seems to be connecting with us more. We’ll laugh at her about something she’s doing, and she’ll stop and look at us, and smile. She’s been showing us what she wants by grabbing our hands and putting them on the toy she wants us to squeeze or push or spin. She’s also started to become interested in Baby Einstein’s DVDs. Sometimes she’ll be sitting there watching it and just laugh out loud!
I mentioned last time that Addison was learning to clap. Well, she is a pro at it now. We were sitting in the floor playing the other day, and she just started clapping on her own.

She is also very interested in Bearfoot, our chocolate lab. He is so sweet with her, and she LOVES to grab anything she can as he passes by. She’ll pull his ears and his lip and climb all over his face, and when he’s had enough, he just gets up and moves.
It’s been a little cooler lately, so I’ve had to kind of bundle Addison up when I go running in the mornings. I found these little bunny slippers in our stash of baby gifts to grow into, and they’re perfect! She loves playing with the little bunny ears, and has actually done well at keeping them on her feet. I keep them on her as long as I can in the mornings because they’re just so cute. Gotta keep the little piggies warm!
I mentioned last time that Addison was learning to clap. Well, she is a pro at it now. We were sitting in the floor playing the other day, and she just started clapping on her own.



Tuesday, September 30, 2008
Tues, September 30



Wednesday, September 17, 2008
Weds, September 17






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